Laws of Relationship: The Law of Reciprocity

Relationships, like so many other things in life, are run by natural laws.  Today’s law which is the law of reciprocity is very interesting.  Reciprocity is the inclination that one feels to repay an act or deed in a like manner. If someone is treated badly, that person is tempted to repay that bad deed with a bad attitude...

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Laws of Relationships: The Law of Investment

There are many laws that determine the success of relationships. These laws may apply to any personal or professional relationship. In this article I wish to share with you; the law of investment.  Everyone who invests expects a return on their investment.  There are certain principles that guide such investments.  Firstly,  you invest in someone who would bring good returns...

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How to Build Relationship Resilience

Every relationship goes through its own measure of trauma and stress.  Relationships are constantly in the mode of rupture and repair.  How do you keep relationships from falling apart and end the emotional revolving door? Build resilience in your relationship.  Resilience is the ability to withstand pressure and stress. Memories:  That’s one of the main areas of resilience.  It is...

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#Achildisachild. Nothing else!

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Character Before Charisma

It is natural for individuals to be drawn toward attractive persons.  People consciously or unconsciously use looks as one of their main deciders when entering a relationship.  Is this working for successful relationships?  I suggest to you, it is not.  I propose that the character of the person by far outweighs the value gained by the good looks of...

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Emotional Infidelity

In recent times many relationships have gone through crisis as a result of what individuals perceive as infidelity on social media.   More and more people are uncovering inappropriate messages on cell phones that are posted or received by their partners.  This is referred to by some as emotional infidelity.  A person is considered to have committed emotional infidelity when he/she...

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How to be a good husband and father

Some ambitious young men who are seeking to get into a serious relationship usually ask a particular question that always causes me to think deeply. That question is, “What do I have to do to be a good husband and father?” I am always intrigued by questions like these. It tells me that the person is thinking progressively and...

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My Concept of Men and Money.

I have no scientific or research information to give you on the subject of men and money.  I have only my experience to share on this subject. As boys, our mother would have us sell fruits from the trees in our yard to make what we called "pocket change".  From the sales, she would ask us to bring the money...

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After a breakup; You have great come-back power!

Not every relationship will result in wedded bliss.  Even those that get to marriage, some still fail.  However, that is not the end of the road. Life has so much more to experience, restore and enjoy. As men and women, we need to appreciate that some relationships fail. A failed relationship does not mean that you are a failure.  This...

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Heat can work for you or against you. It all depends on how you allow the challenges in life impact you. The health and pressures in life, you can either cook with it or be cooked by it! You choose. I choose to cook with all the heat the winds of life blows my way.

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