How to Argue Properly

In life, we must encounter an argument. Arguing is an art.  Very few people have been able to master that art.  Most people allow the issue to make them argue involuntarily.  I want to help you consciously enter an argument the right way. Having an argument is not a bad thing. You get the opportunity to appreciate the other person’s...

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There are men, made of Strong Stuff !

I met him for the first time recently.  Randolf was in his senior years at 97 and his wife, 100.  Randolf is blind, and humped over with a curved spine which causes him to walk with his face towards the ground.  His wife suffered a stroke and has limited mobility.  They both live alone, in a very small wooden...

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How to Repair Broken Relationships

Relationships are constantly being ruptured and repaired. You will never escape that pendulum ride. Learning how to repair the ruptures, is one of the keys to successful relationships. Relationships rupture when the connection between two people break. However, ruptures can provide opportunities to rekindle and rejuvenate stale, routine, mundane relationships. The willingness to repair ruptures is evidence that there is...

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A set back is a set up for a come back

A slingshot is quite an interesting weapon.  In order for it to be effective, it must be pulled back a considerable distance and released in order for the stone it propels to achieve its greatest thrust and trajectory. I find that to be a wonderful analogy to experiences in life.  There are times that despite your best efforts and planning,...

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Are there blessings in receiving

We have been taught from very young by our parents that we should be good givers.  Our religious teachings promote freewill giving.  No one discounts, therefore, the virtue in giving, after all the Bible itself quoted Jesus when Paul himself reminded us of his statement, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” I wish to challenge your...

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Stop Procrastinating

Many people constantly procrastinate and give themselves a lower standard of living than they should enjoy.  They also lose out on many opportunities to take their circumstances to greater levels. Procrastination could be defined as the art of putting things on hold; the avoidance of making decisions or the fear of confronting what must be confronted. In other words when...

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Release your powerful potential

Most people live way below their real potential. Potential is massive power to accomplish something but you have not yet done so. It is your possibility waiting to be activated by you. If you understand and accept that you can achieve infinitely more than you do now then you will not waste time complaining about what you do not...

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Life is a Story You Write Michael A.T. Stewart

Do you like writing stories? Whether or not you do, you write stories every day of your life. You see, the life you have is the manifestation of the story you have been writing from as far back as you can remember. Every decision you make, every person you allow into your life, every thought you entertain are all used...

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Junk in the Trunk

Have you ever seen a slick vehicle with an attractive paint job, good tires, clean and expensive interior but when you go to the trunk it is full of discarded stuff, used parts and just plain junk? It was hard to tell from the exterior. Or maybe you have your house and the living room smells good, clean furniture...

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